When someone calls/messages you telling you to go meet them at an address or send your location, automatically understand that is a loser. It's not that they don't have nothing to lose because we all do; some people just don't care to lose. Lose their kids, house, opportunities, or life, losers don't mind losing, that's just losers for you.
Use these come backs lines . ( these are things I have personally said in these situations)
No one actually has time for this to be honest.
You can fight yourself because I have better things to do.
Like look at you? Here wanting to fight and risk losing your freedom, kids, house like seriously.
You're a bum that actually has time to be meeting up not to make money or discuss your goals but to fight? C'mon for real you actually make me sick.
Not going to entertain this.
Been there done that, ain't got time for it.
You know I can have you up right? Like c'mon you're a nerd you need to find something better to do.
If you're bad for real you wouldn't be here proving a point, real G's sit back 'cause we ain't got nothing to prove , people done know already.
Get your money up instead of focusing on stupidity.
You're a nerd.
Aww thank you that I am actually that relevant to you that you would chose me over your kids/house/goals/life, You're definitely not that relevant for me to choose you over everything I have going on.
Do you actually have anything going on for yourself? Because for real, only people who don't have nothing going on have time for stupidity.
Unlike some people, I have actual goals to focus on.. You probably wouldn't know what that means since you're here doing the most over something that isn't going to get you rich.
Like 'am too hot and boss to be coming out like some loser bum to fight another loser bum.
You don't have nothing better to do clearly?
So what should you do in the moment?
6. Instead of adding fuel to the fire and making the situation worse do this:
When you are already in a situation that can lead to a physical confrontation, Be assertive , don't make the situation worse by cussing, getting angry, laughing or making threats.
7. Act unbothered /unshaken
Don't make them think you are scared or threatened, Be boss, show them the levels. Show them how to act. Be a real G and show 'em you're not the one who clearly needs mental help.
8. Remind them of some of the great things you have going for yourself
This will inspire them to do better. However when doing so, do bare in mind people can be jealous; so don't brag about anything too much; whether it's your looks, money, partner or goals. Use just the correct amount; when you give but don't pour.
9. Let them know it's a choice to not unleash the beast
This can be like a warning, you know, :"I would but due to the reasons stated above and below, I will chose to spare myself from the harm I can cause myself , life, opportunities and loved ones."
It's not about allowing(sparing) them, it's about allowing(sparing) yourself first; because you should care about you before caring about what could potentially happen to them,
They will learn from you because you appear as the one in charge of the situation including your own emotions compare to them.
10. Send constant reminders about what could happen
Remind them constantly throughout the conversation without making it obvious, the potential consequences. Remind them they can loose their kids, can risk their life , loose your home, can impact your kids and their future. This is to help them think again and deter them from making that choice.
11. Ask rhetorical questions
Is this what you really want? To meet up, fight and potentially loose your life/kids/business/house?
This is to help them think since they are clearly not thinking straight trying to step to you. Be like a coach, mentor or older; asking questions that touches a soft spot.
Check out catch me outside part 1 and 3 for more tips.
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